Last Tuesday, three stunning women congregated to laugh and muse over
monumental events in their careers as ASCAP Rhythm & Soul presented
its 6th Annual “Women Behind the Music” Series. “The series, designed to
encourage and recognize women in the music community, paid homage to
three incredible trailblazers in each region.” Concluding in Atlanta,
GA, the honored guests included Debra Antney, Founder and CEO of Mizay
Entertainment; Keke Wyatt, powerhouse vocalist and label manager; and
Omara Harris, ESQ., Entertainment Lawyer at her own boutique
entertainment law firm.
Always keeping it real, Debra Antney shared significant advice for women
in the music industry and had the audience giggling with her eccentric
quoteables. I can see us sitting down and having a heart to heart in the
future.
Prior to the honorees’ award ceremony,
ASCAP Rhythm & Soul hosted a cocktail hour featuring Caribbean fare
hors d'oeuvres from Negril Villiage, beverages from Myx Fusions, and
music provided by DJ Adore.
Hosted by Jennifer Goicoechea,
Associate Director of ASCAP Rhythm & Soul, the event commenced with a
warm recognition of the series’ sponsors Myx Fusions (Mona Scott-Young,
co-owner and CMO was a 2011 ASCAP Honoree), Melody Ehsani and Susan G.
Komen for the Cure. Goicoechea also acknowledged her team at the ASCAP
Urban Rhythm and Soul Department including Joncier Rienecker, Membership
Representative, her interns and assistants concluding her heartfelt
thanks with “I love you guys, you guys are amazing.”
Capturing
the audience’s attention Ray Louise, a new member of the ASCAP family,
performed two original songs. Following Louise’s performance, Goicoechea
introduced the honorees and welcomed them to the stage. As each guest
of honor approached the platform, Goicoechea detailed their involvement
in society, outlining these women’s investments outside of their
business titles. Debra Antney runs No RIP, an organization that spreads
awareness about cyber bullying; Keke Wyatt is a spokesperson for the
National Coalition for Domestic Violence; and Omara Harris gives back to
her alma maters Spelman and NC Central School of Law.
Goicoechea
interviewed the panel asking questions to provide a clearer scope on
how these superwomen manage to balance business and life while
experiencing issues like black tax, a concept that one has to work twice
as hard as their Caucasian co-workers and being a female in a male
dominated industry.
While talking about their day to day tasks,
each of the women describe a hectic but fruitful day. “It’s crazy.
Everyday is a different day. There is no telling what could pop up,”
says Antney while Harris describes a day full of negotiating and peevish
replies—and that spontaneity and pressure is what fuels them. Knowing
that her clients make sacrifices i.e. sleeping in the studio, Harris
realizes they may not have time to focus on the business acumen and so
it’s rewarding for her to make sure “[her clients] get what they
deserve.”
The ladies also touched on their lessons learned thus
far and all three agreed there is a great difficulty in finding balance
between work and life. As Wyatt rubbed her round belly, she stated,
“this is baby number 8 and honestly the hardest thing is leaving my
children,” but Wyatt chooses to teach them that this hard work pays for
the possessions they enjoy. Harris explains, “Time management. It’s
difficult to decide what to take on and not let it drain you,” because
irrationally taking on projects could ultimately effect your reputation.
Providing
their perspectives, the panel discussed being immersed in male
dominated industries. Antney narrated a time where she physically “had
to jump on top of the table like an ape and was like ‘Earth to Mars, I’m
here!’” She proceeded to say, “It was that disrespectful…and they
were my artists.” But rest assured, Antney stated, “I have no
problem putting them back in their place.” Wyatt added, “they think
you’re crazy when you do it” and that’s a risk these women are willing
to take to gain respect. As they shared their stories, they supplied the
room with valuable knowledge, “we [women] need each other more than
what women understand. Legs closed. Pocketbooks open,” Antney chanted.
Harris inquired, “What are people are going to remember about you when
you’re gone? Stay focused on your legacy.” And Antney concluded, “Be
you. Be true to who you are. It’s so important.”
Goicoechea ended
the inspiring panel by asking what upcoming projects these women had in
store for the upcoming new year. Wyatt announced her upcoming album, a
television show screening her and her family, and of course her eighth
child’s arrival. Antney disclosed her independent radio station, Be100
is going on a televised tour to search for the next female and male
artist and informed us to be on the lookout for her new country artist.
And Harris expressed she is also expecting a little one in April. It was
an inspirational night for all who were present as we giggled, SMH-ed
and related to the trio. Everyone left feeling a little closer to these
influential women.
Originally published on www.idomusiconline.com/blog